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Date Rape and Acquaintance Rape lawyer in madision, WI

“I thought it was consensual.” “We were drunk.” “She said yes.”
Many people who face sexual assault charges for date rape or acquaintance rape never meant to harm anyone. The feelings of betrayal and fear can be overwhelming, especially for college students and other young adults facing the criminal justice system for the first time.

Our law firm, Nicholson Goetz & Otis, S.C., has an outstanding reputation for defending people facing difficult charges and even more difficult times. We know these are sensitive cases, and we will handle your defense with the discretion and compassion it deserves.

For years, we have fought for the “underdog” – good people caught in bad situations.

What is the definition of acquaintance rape?

The state of Wisconsin generally defines acquaintance rape as any unwanted sexual contact that occurs between two people who know each other. This can include sexual touching, penetration, or any other type of sexual act that is not consensual.

Rape Vs. Date Rape

In Wisconsin, there is no legal distinction between rape and date rape. Both can be prosecuted under the same crimes: second-degree sexual assault or third-degree sexual assault. 

The term “date rape” is often used to describe sexual assault that occurs between two people who are in a romantic or sexual relationship, but it can also occur between any two people who simply know each other.

I’ve Been Accused Of Date Rape. What Charges Do I Face?

Date rape is one of the more confusing crimes. In Wisconsin, prosecutors typically charge date/acquaintance rape as a second- or third-degree sexual assault crime.
Second-degree sexual assault: You can be charged with this crime if you did not have consent and:
  • Had sex with someone who was under the influence of drugs or alcohol and was unable to understand his or her circumstances
  • Used a date rape drug
  • Threatened or used force or violence
  • Had sex with an unconscious person
Third-degree sexual assault: Sexual assault in the third degree is sexual intercourse without consent.
While your actions may not have seemed to be as bad as other serious crimes, you can face up to 40 years in prison and a $10,000 fine for date rape. Your actual sentence will depend on several factors, including the facts of your case, the judge, the jury and your defense lawyer’s ability.

What Evidence Is Necessary In A Date Rape Case?

Unlike cases involving two strangers, alleged cases of date rape or acquaintance rape rarely involve denial that the sex took place. Both parties usually confirm that it happened. Instead, the issue is around consent.
Physical evidence is likely to be lacking, except in cases where the victim was given a date-rape drug or had defensive wounds (bruises, etc.) from trying to fight off their attacker. Instead, these cases often rely on the testimony of both parties involved and perhaps anyone else who happened to see them immediately before or after the alleged incident.

Possible Defense Strategies

The best (and sometimes only) defense strategy against allegations of date rape ad acquaintance rape stories is to prove that the alleged victim gave consent, or at least that the circumstances were ambiguous enough to be unable to discern when or whether consent was granted and when or whether it was rescinded.

Again, this often comes down to “he said, she said” testimony, and the details may have been very blurry if you were both impaired by alcohol or drugs. But any details you can remember and corroborate are going to be very important to your defense. To that end, you need to be careful about early statements you give to the police. 

Your story may change as you recall more details, but prosecutors could try to use those inconsistencies against you. Please have a defense attorney by your side before answering questions.

Rules Against Attacking The Victim

A historically common defense tactic in alleged rape cases was to introduce evidence about the complainant’s sexual history – either with other people, with the defendant or both. However, this tactic is all but prohibited under Wisconsin’s rape shield law. 

The statute does not allow the introduction of evidence of a complainant’s sexual history because it will likely have a prejudicial effect on the jury.

There are instances in which you might be able to introduce evidence of your own sexual history with the complainant (if there is a history), but several strict criteria must be met. It is important to remember, however, that each sexual encounter must be consensual. 

Even if prior encounters were consensual, that alone is not proof of consent in the encounter that resulted in criminal charges.

Date Rape and Acquaintance Rape in Madison FAQs

At Nicholson Goetz & Otis, S.C., we understand that facing a date rape or acquaintance rape accusation can raise many questions. That’s why our Madison-based law firm has put together these FAQs to help you understand the charges you may face, how Wisconsin law applies to situations like that, and how to protect yourself.

How does Wisconsin legally define “consent,” and what are its limits?

Wisconsin law defines consent as “words or overt actions” that indicate a “freely given agreement” to engage in sexual intercourse or contact. This definition carries important limits. It only counts as consent if the person is “competent” to give it. This means a person can’t legally consent if:

  • They are unconscious
  • They are so intoxicated that they can’t accurately evaluate their own conduct
  • They have a mental condition that prevents them from providing informed consent

Silence or a lack of resistance does not constitute consent, nor does prior consent to sexual activity.

What should I do if I have been accused of date rape in Wisconsin?

The most important thing you can do after a date rape accusation is to contact an experienced criminal defense attorney before you speak with anyone else. Do not talk to the police, investigators, or even friends or family about the details of the incident. Anything you say could reach prosecutors and hurt your defense. Do not contact the accuser under any circumstances, as this could result in additional charges. A defense lawyer can help you determine your next steps and protect your rights from day one.

Can texts or online conversations be used as evidence in my case?

Yes, and prosecutors use this type of evidence frequently. Text messages, DMs, dating app conversations, and social media posts can all help the state establish the nature of the relationship between the parties and communications from before and after the alleged incident. This evidence can cut both ways. It may support your account of events, or prosecutors may try to use it against you. Regardless, you should preserve all relevant digital communications immediately and share them with your lawyer. Avoid deleting anything, as courts may view that as destruction of evidence.

What happens if the accuser recants or changes their story after charges have been filed?

Recantations and inconsistencies in an accuser’s account can have significant effects, but they do not automatically result in dropped charges. The state can continue prosecuting a sexual assault case even if the alleged victim recants or refuses to cooperate. Prosecutors may argue that the recantation stemmed from pressure or fear. That said, an inconsistent or changing account can weaken the prosecution’s case considerably, and a Madison defense attorney can use those inconsistencies to challenge the credibility of the allegations at trial. A good lawyer will work to expose every inconsistency in the case against you through thorough cross-examination and investigation.

I’m a student. Can I face both criminal charges and a university Title IX investigation at the same time?

Yes. A criminal charge and a Title IX proceeding are separate processes with different standards of proof and different potential consequences. A criminal conviction requires proof beyond a reasonable doubt. A Title IX investigation typically requires only a “preponderance of the evidence,” meaning the university only needs to find it more likely than not that a violation occurred. If you’re a student, you need an attorney who understands both processes. Decisions you make in one proceeding may affect the other, so coordinating your defense across both is essential.

What’s the difference between a criminal charge and a civil lawsuit in a date rape case? Could I face both?

A criminal charge involves the state of Wisconsin prosecuting you for an alleged crime, with potential consequences including prison time, fines, and mandatory sex offender registration. A civil lawsuit is a separate legal action that the alleged victim can file against you personally to seek monetary compensation. It’s possible to face both. A criminal acquittal does not prevent someone from filing or winning a civil suit. If you face accusations of date rape anywhere in Wisconsin, you should retain a defense attorney who can address both criminal charges and potential civil exposure from the start.

Exceptional Trial Lawyers. Winning Results.

Our criminal defense attorneys are respected throughout the Madison and Wisconsin legal communities for their trial know-how and passion. We know that date rape case results can be changed by just one person’s testimony. 

That is why we will work with a network of experienced investigators and experts to uncover facts, go through those facts with a fine-toothed comb, and present a compelling case to the prosecution, judge and jury.

But don’t take our word for it. Instead, read what our past clients have to say and then contact us for a free 30-minute initial consultation by calling 608-237-6854 or sending us an email.